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The Better Man

A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex

By Eric FitzMedrud

If you’re a man who’s confused about consent, you aren’t alone. In the post #MeToo era, men know they need to get consent but don’t know how to ask for it. They may be afraid of doing the wrong thing, or worried about giving up hot sex. In this practical guide to navigating sexual relationships with respect, sex positive psychologist Eric FitzMedrud teaches men the skills to be better lovers, partners, and humans.


Published by Wonderwell
Release Date: September 19, 2023
Available in paperback and ebook
272 pages
$25.99 USD / $33.99 CAD

Hone your consent skills for stronger relationships and hotter sex.

The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex empowers men to embrace their sexuality, manage their emotions, and understand entitlementand it explains how toxic masculinity harms men and ruins sex for them and their partners. Moreover, this skillsbased guide, rooted in evidencebased techniques, shows men how to practice consent, not just on first dates but in all relationship situations and with all types of people, from romantic partners to acquaintances and coworkers.

Using everyday examples, The Better Man provides accurate, sexpositive informationalong with confidenceboosting exercises and shamebusting drillsto help men learn how to ask for the passionate sex they want and listen well enough to deliver the pleasure a partner desires.

This book shows men how to:

  • Learn evidencebased skills and strategies for practicing consent
  • Understand that getting consent can be sexy
  • Communicate more effectively in their relationships
  • Heal their own wounds from patriarchy by taking responsibility for their own behavior
  • Use principles of safety and health to pursue passionate sex
  • Understand toxic masculinity while celebrating male sexuality and honoring diverse identities and lifestyles
Claire Booth

Eric FitzMedrud

Eric FitzMedrud is a therapist specializing in relationship and sexual issues in the San Francisco Bay Area. His specialty is helping men improve their sex lives by learning to regulate their emotions, removing sexual entitlement, and honing their sexual consent and negotiation skills. 

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